Update on Grace

On Wednesday, we visited Dr. Chambers at the International Adoption Clinic for the 6 week-post travel appointment. We were thankful to fear that all the tests for diseases/illnesses/complications etc., came back negative. The results from her bloodwork show that she is up to date on her immunizations, so no more shots. (At least for a few months until she turns 2.) Since the last appt, Grace gained 1 1/2 lbs! So she now weighs 21.5.

The attachment specialist was extremely pleased with Grace's bonding and adjustment. While we had a setback after returning home from the lake Memorial Day weekend, the specialist said this is very normal and could continue for months and even years to come. However, she said this should not discourage us from traveling or vacationing. We'll just need to anticipate the consequences once we get home.

The development specialist conducted some tests and exercises and was also very pleased. She told us that very few of the children they see are developmentally on target, or ahead of the curve for that matter. She said Grace is advanced and was likely blessed with a wonderful foster family who cared for, challenged, and stimulated her. She also appears to be very bright. (I remember thinking this on Gotcha Day when we got back to the hotel and she nested 7 stacking cups in order in less than 10 minutes. And in the condition of shock and grief!)

As we left the office, I was overjoyed at the positive reports. And the song that kept playing in my mind was "Mary, Did You Know?" I kept thinking to myself, did my daughter's birth mother know that the baby from her womb would be so strong? Did she know how beautiful she would be? Could she have sensed the intelligence her baby girl possesses? Would she ever have believed that one surgery would remove the invasive tumor from Grace's tongue forever and causes no problems?

In some ways, it pains me to think that Virginia Grace's birth parents will never know the talents, potential, beauty, and heart of the child they gave life to. Some days, I wish I could find them and assure them that their child is loved beyond measure. Some moments, this whole story seems so tragic and heartwrenching. Then I remember the lesson I learned from "Beauty Will Rise." Sacrifice and loss can birth beauty and joy. Each of our stories have not ended. They continue with hope. And I know God has written each day.